Yesterday,BBN 2017 TTT’s wife clapped back at a troll who blasted the reality star after
he wished his wife a happy birthday with loving words. The troll told
him to sit down with his praise of his wife after he had disrespected
her by frolicking with Bisola on Big Brother Naija reality show.
Labara was fast to put the IG troll in her place. Responding to the
exchange, Ali Baba said people should learn to butt out of married
people’s problems.
Read what he wrote:
“Remember I told you all marriages are not the same? The issues one
partner in a marriage can tolerate, another will find it totally
unacceptable. I also told you of the Auntie that advised her niece to
move out of her matrimonial home when a lady got pregnant for him, just
to teach her husband a lesson. She listened & moved out. 1 wk. 3
wks, 3 months, 6 months, 1 year. Na so marriage scatter. The marriage,
that was not up to 2 years packed up. Then some years after, she
attended the Auntie’s husband’s 70th, & at picture sessions she
noticed a small boy join the nuclear family. Who’s child is that? She
asked. Answer was given to her in whispers. Auntie’s husband had
fathered a child out of wedlock. AUNTIE didnt leave. Angered, She
confronted Auntie & it fractured the family. Another strong feminist
on Facebook, in 2005 or 6, can’t remember now, called a lady who said
she was pregnant for a marriage man and didn’t know what to do, all
kinds of names plus home breaker. Only to see her pregnant & it was
for a Senator friend of mine. And I happened to know that the Senator
was married. Come and see explanations. “It’s not like that. I found out
after it happened. They were separated. He wanted to divorce her. It
was nothing serious. We are in love. I am ashamed of myself, blah blah
blah”. Trust me. I wrote about her hypocrisy. If you haven’t reached the
bridge don’t cross it. Don’t count your chicks before they are hatched.
Don’t swallow panadol for another person’s headache. Let the person
wearing the shoe tell you where it pinches. That is why some people will
continue to hold grudges against a partner in a relationship and the
partners have made up and moved on. Is it your marriage?! Over sabi! If
anything like that happens to me, & my wife decides to do anything,
she is my wife. That’s ok. Why will you now carry it on your head even
on her birthday? Mscheeeew. Oya, go and seek to dissolve the marriage
na. As e dey pain you so! Wait ooo! How do you feel when people quarrel
and you take sides. Then see them together after all your bad mouth?
Mine is get upset. But move on. Just move on. Especially if the parties
involved moved on.
