Lady Stunned as German Man Cancels Date Over Lateness
A young woman has stirred heated conversation online after revealing that her German date abruptly cancelled their outing because she arrived late.
In a TikTok video, the lady identified as @.dolphine.bosibori shared that she was almost at the venue when she received a message from the man, informing her that the date was off. Eyes Of Lagos reports,
“A German man just cancelled our date because I was late and only told me when I had almost gotten to the location,” she wrote.
Mixed Reactions Trail Her Story
The revelation sparked debate in the comment section, with many defending the man’s decision by highlighting how important punctuality is in German culture. Others, however, sympathised with her, arguing that cancelling so abruptly was extreme.
Some reactions included:
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Werkstatt: “In Germany, being late is very disrespectful. It might not be intentional for others, but here, it’s a dealbreaker.”
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mari: “For the fact that you didn’t say how late you were, I’m guessing you left home when you were supposed to already be there.”
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Farmor: “He should have told you earlier, but lateness without reason is rude—especially on a first date.”
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Victoria 👸🏼🇫🇮🇮🇹🧿: “For girls, it’s okay to be late! But good that he showed his character early.”
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drakuhl: “Being late is a sign of disrespect. He saw the red flag and walked away.”
Lady Defends Herself
Amid the backlash, the lady clarified that this wasn’t their first meeting but actually their seventh date. She also insisted she was only four minutes away from the venue when the man cancelled.
“It’s the 7th date… we basically know each other,” she responded.
@.dolphine.bosibori Dating in Germany again got interesting #fyp #datingingermany #datingstorytime ♬ WILDFLOWER – .