“She’s Not My Type for a Wife” — Man’s Comment After Three Years of Dating Sparks Online Debate

A relationship story shared on social media platform X (formerly Twitter) has ignited widespread debate about commitment, honesty, and emotional responsibility in modern dating.

The post, shared by a lady online, revealed a conversation involving her friend and his girlfriend of three years, which many users have described as shocking and insensitive. Eyes Of Lagos reports,

According to the woman, her friend had posted a photo with his girlfriend on social media. In a light-hearted manner, she asked him when he planned to propose to his longtime partner.

Rather than brushing off the question or responding jokingly, the man allegedly gave a blunt reply that stunned both the poster and many social media users.

The man reportedly responded by saying that his girlfriend was “not my type for a wife,” despite the fact that they had been in a committed relationship for three years.

The comment quickly gained traction online after it was shared publicly, with many users questioning why he remained in the relationship for such a long period if he had no intention of marrying her.

The revelation triggered heated discussions across social media, with many users criticising the man for what they described as emotional dishonesty and time-wasting.

Some argued that staying in a long-term relationship without clarity about marriage was unfair, while others suggested that not all relationships are meant to end in marriage and that expectations should be communicated early.

The story has since become a reference point in ongoing conversations about dating boundaries, intentional relationships, and accountability between partners.