A Nigerian woman has triggered widespread reactions on social media after boldly declaring her complete rejection of marriage and childbearing, describing the institution of marriage as unbearable to her.
In a viral rant, the lady stated that she has zero interest in marrying any man, stressing that her decision has nothing to do with whether a man is good or bad. Eyes Of Lagos reports,
According to her, the idea of marital life feels suffocating, adding that she cannot imagine herself living under the same roof with a man at any point in her life.
She further explained that she values friendships and human connections over romantic or marital commitments, insisting that her stance is final and non-negotiable.
The lady also dismissed societal expectations surrounding marriage and childbirth, noting that external pressure does not influence her decision. She revealed that she has firmly chosen not to bring children into the world, regardless of public opinion.
Her comments have since ignited intense debate online, with social media users sharing mixed reactions — some applauding her honesty and autonomy, while others criticized her views as extreme.
“I would rather be de@d than marry a man” —lady declares
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